Rediscovering Myself: A Journey of Transformation During Divorce

May 16

Navigating life during divorce can feel like stepping into uncharted territory—no map, no compass, and no clear vision. The peaks of uncertainty and valleys of loneliness can feel overwhelming. Whether the split was amicable or deeply painful, divorce always brings seismic, life-altering change, because it isn't what we planned for.

I know this firsthand. I walked that path.

Coming out of a life-saving divorce wasn’t easy. I grieved the dreams I once held—the shared goals, the imagined future. There were moments I longed for what could have been. But slowly, step by step, I discovered something powerful: while divorce marks the end of one chapter, it also opens the door to a new one—full of growth, strength, and self-discovery.

From Surviving to Thriving
Today, when I look back, I don’t just see survival—I see transformation.

I embraced challenges I never imagined I could. I became a ramp agent at SkyWest Airlines, marshaling airplanes, handling baggage, and stepping into a role that reminded me of my resilience. I drove for DoorDash. I earned my life insurance license. Most importantly, I transformed my pain into purpose.

Now, as a Certified Divorce Coach, I guide other women through their own recoveries—helping them rediscover their voices, rebuild their confidence, and reclaim their power.

Common Struggles After Divorce
While every journey is unique, many divorced women share these challenges:
💔 Emotional rollercoaster: Grief, anger, confusion, and hope can come in waves.
🤍 Loneliness and isolation: The loss of partnership leaves a profound void.
💸 Financial insecurity: Rebuilding stability can feel daunting.
🧍‍♀️ Societal judgment: Divorce still carries stigma, and navigating that can be exhausting.
👧 Parenting challenges: Co-parenting and supporting children’s emotions adds another layer.
🌱 Loss of identity: Who are you outside of your marriage?

These struggles are real—but so is your strength.

The Power of Divorce Recovery Coaching
This is where coaching makes all the difference. As your Divorce Recovery Coach, I don't just offer advice—I walk beside you. I provide a structured, compassionate space for you to feel seen, heard, and supported. Together, we transform pain into purpose.

Coaching is not about rushing to "get over it." It’s about honoring your journey while building a path forward—one filled with clarity, courage, and hope.

Turning Pain into Power
Divorce isn’t the end of your story. It’s the start of a new chapter—one that you get to write.

Seeking support, prioritizing your healing, and investing in your future are acts of strength. And with the right guidance, your post-divorce life can become the most powerful, authentic, and fulfilling season yet. And how you show up for yourself during the divorce process is the beginning of this growth season for you.

You have the power to turn your pain into strength, your loss into liberation. You are not alone in this journey.

If you’re curious about how divorce recovery coaching can support you or someone you know, I invite you to reach out. Let’s rediscover what’s possible—together.

There is life after divorce. A beautiful, enriching one.
If it is to be, it's up to me.